It is scary to be a woman in Abuja.
Like me, hundreds of Abuja residents were rudely awakened to the horrors of the
brutality meted out to over 100 women in Abuja, the capital of Nigeria, from
24-27 April 2019, by law enforcement agencies comprising
members of the Abuja
Environmental Protection Board (AEPB), the Nigeria Police Force, the Social
Development Secretariat (SDS) and the Society Against Prostitution and Child
Labour in Nigeria (SAP-CLN), among others.
The women were picked up from several
spots across Abuja; night clubs, restaurants, and pharmacies to kiosks, around
midnight. They were all arrested, forced into vans and driven to nearby police
stations. Those who resisted the arrest were beaten.
Most of the women arrested had their
breasts and vaginas groped by their male arresters, in search of “exhibits and
evidence” as recounted by one of the survivors, who also said that all the
women were accused of soliciting sex, forced to plead guilty at a mobile court
in Abuja and given the option of paying a fine of N3,000.00, sex for bail, or
getting jailed for up to 6 months. According to her, many women who refused to
be wrongfully accused were beaten, tortured and raped and that she, alongside
two other young women, were raped by four male police officers. Some were
tear-gassed, while others had their vaginas assaulted with objects.
An investigative report documented by
Premium Times, Vanguard and Centre for Women’s Global leadership suggests that
what is happening is a sex ring; ‘a racket and conduit for diversion of
government funds’, dating as far as 2012. It reveals that the AEPB in
partnership with SAP-CLN carry out raids to get ‘prostitutes and the destitute
off the streets of Abuja and rehabilitated’; a project which the Federal
Capital Territory (FCT) invests hundreds of millions of Naira to implement.
While there has been a sustained
outcry over the sexual brutality of the Nigeria Police Force and other law
enforcement agencies on the bodies of women, what is currently happening is a
reflection of the culture of the larger society in Nigeria where women are
treated as less than human beings and objects for men’s sexual pleasures.
“Many boys and young men see young women and
girls as sport or game. They compete with one another over how many girls or
women they can sleep with”, says Ken, a security specialist.
Women are highly affected by sexual
violence and abuse in Nigeria notably through harassment in politics, schools
and in the workplace, intimate partner violence, under-age marriages, wife
inheritance, and child rape among others.
The way a woman dresses has also been used to justify harassment and rape. As Dr. Eleanor Nwadinobi, a medical doctor and expert on health, gender, women, peace and security puts it, “how a woman dresses should never be a reason for her to be raped by a man. We must train our boys and men to zip up. The burden of proof should always be on the man to prove that he did not step outside the boundaries of respect. For some of us, our great grandmothers wore jigida (waist beads) and yet they did not suffer sexual violence”.
The way a woman dresses has also been used to justify harassment and rape. As Dr. Eleanor Nwadinobi, a medical doctor and expert on health, gender, women, peace and security puts it, “how a woman dresses should never be a reason for her to be raped by a man. We must train our boys and men to zip up. The burden of proof should always be on the man to prove that he did not step outside the boundaries of respect. For some of us, our great grandmothers wore jigida (waist beads) and yet they did not suffer sexual violence”.
Some concepts have tried to explain
the root causes of sexual and gender based violence. The first believes that
biologically, men are more aggressive than women, have more sexual dispositions
than women and are unable to resist the urge to rape due to their high levels
of testosterone. The second leans on socio-cultural reasons; that patriarchy
positions women as possessions and easy targets for sex and rape, while the
third concept looks at rape and sexual violence as strategies to achieve
political, social and economic power in order to suppress and destroy.
I want to add that it is also
important to look at the way men socialize (call it the ‘guy code’ if you may)
– there seems to be a certain bond among men – they get along with their fellow
men, be they strangers or enemies, detest a woman who trashes other men,
protect and respect their daughters, sisters and mothers (but may not extend
the same courtesy to other women), and tend to keep their fellow men’s secrets secret
even when they have done something wrong.
The above behaviors seem harmless but
could form part of the culture that ends up hurting women. Speaking on her
experiences, Ifeyinwa, a Political Science lecturer at the National Open
University in Abuja, observed that “sexual abuse on women is shrouded in
secrecy – a man repeatedly harasses several women in the work place because no
one reports it, even when caught red-handed, his male colleagues protect him
and say things like ‘we are men; we protect each other’. She added that “a huge
responsibility is on mothers to train their children especially the boys, to
have respect for the dignity of others and respect for women.”
“Any man, who tells you that he will
not think of having sex with a beautiful, sexy woman, is lying. Men are easily
socialised thus they advance women easily. When they are rejected, it bruises
their ego. It’s like a lion in the jungle thing, a territory thing and a man
feels he needs to conquer the woman who rejected him before moving to the next
conquest. Many men who abuse women use it as a show of power and control,”
reflected a traditional ruler, on the root causes of sexual violence and
rape.
Patriarchy and power relations have
ways of placing the male folk on the higher level of the repressive hierarchy
of the society. By placing the male folk at this higher level, it gives
privilege and a sense of entitlement to the male desire over everyone and
everything else – the female body is thus subjected to the control of the male
folk and must be had however, whenever, and wherever he wants it.
It is this repressive subjugation of
the female body that gender scholars, like Simone de Beauvoir, in her work,
‘The Second Sex’, deprecate. The privileging of male desires in a patriarchal
society always ends up producing the scary sexual orientation and sexual
violence which women often experience in most men of today’s Nigeria. To put it
bluntly, it is this culture of privileging and entitlement that allows
officials of the Abuja Environmental Protection Board (AEPB) to target any
woman found having good nights-out in bars and lounges in Abuja as easy lay.
Finally, in establishing and
continuing to fund the FCT Joint Task Force, the State has created and
maintained a Special Purpose Vehicle (SPV) which is used to harass and sexually
exploit women. The uncouth, randy and corrupt elements in public service, in
partnership with their thugs, have taken advantage of the SPV to prey on
vulnerable women without risking any social reprimand or legal punishment. This
is downright scary and needs to be looked into.
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